Why Men And Women Argue

#7 Cheating

So we all know that cheating on your partner is a dumpable offense and it will always cause a horrendous argument. Its no wonder that this is one of the most argued about things. Would you stand for it? There is no way cheating will ever be okay. So to avoid the argument to end all arguments, just don’t cheat. It seems pretty straight forward, doesn’t it. There is every reason to argue if you’re other half has cheated on you. If they loved you, they wouldn’t have done it so argue till they’re blue in the face with excuses, this is one argument it is okay to have.

#6 Upbringing

So your dad told you to stand up for yourself and his dad said walk away from the fight. Maybe your mom said to empty your plate before leaving the table. We all had different rules when we were growing up and it is bound to cause some clashes when we are older. Don’t let it phase the relationships you have, everyone has different opinions and half of the time they don’t really matter, bicker it out and move on.

#5 Habits

He sits in front of the television all day while you clean and tidy up, caveman ideas. We would all rather sit in front of the television than tidy up. Just ask them to help you. It’s not worth the argument for some people. A clash of habits isn’t the worst thing in the world, you can talk it though and try and be on the same page next time. As they say, there’s no point in crying over spilt milk.

#4 Focus

So you both have different priorities, don’t worry about it. Is there really any point in arguing over it? Although some of us do argue over where we would like to be in ten years’ time, it doesn’t mean it’s the end of the road for you, it’s called compromise. The more you work together the less you will have the argument about what house to live in and how many kids you want. There’s plenty of time for that in the future.

#3 Emotions

We all have our moments when we feel overwhelmed and we just snap. Its human nature, not a hanging offense. If you do find yourself arguing over it then don’t panic it’s not a big deal cause it happens to everyone. Just because you go through it, doesn’t mean it’s the end, just calm down and talk to each other when it’s all blown over. We all feel like we need some space sometimes. If you do don’t stress over it, just walk away and take some time to calm down.

#2 Free Time

So you both have a day off together, the first on in forever…does he want to spend it curled up watching films with you or going out to see his mates? Probably to see his mates, if you live together there is no harm in him going out for a day since you’ll see him that night and every one after that. Just be calm about it, it doesn’t mean he doesn’t want to be with you, it just means he has friends too. Don’t take it to heart, you’re still his girl. We all need a break from those we love sometimes. Take the opportunity to have some well-deserved ‘me time’ and turn it into a positive.

#1 Money

So you earn more than him or maybe it’s the other way round, does it matter? You want to go on holiday but he doesn’t think you can afford it, save up then…show him you can afford it even if you pay for yourself and there’s not shared account for it to come out of. If you want a holiday then you have to pay for it, seems fair enough really. Everyone in the world will argue about money, so if you argue over it its only showing that you’re both aware of what’s going on in the world. Bills are going up and as is food, what’s more important food or a mini break. I think we all know what’s best for us.