How to Get over Him

#9 Set A Deadline

So it’s been 2 months since you broke up, don’t you think it’s time to stop moaping and get yourself back out there. You can’t hang about forever hoping and praying he’s going to call and beg for you back. Show him what he’s missing and that you don’t care anymore, he’s had his chance and he has lost it. He’s history now so keep it that way, go out let your hair down and enjoy life. Don’t let him ruin it for you.

#8 Clean the house.

So it may not be spring but give the house a good clean. You don’t have to throw all the presents, just clear them away, fill a shoe box and put it at the back of a cupboard. Doesn’t have to be forever just until you can look back on them as happy memories not to sit and cry about. Moving all the stuff will make it easier to forget about it, out of sight out of mind, give it a try.

#7 Get A Pet

Doesn’t have to be a huge dog, even a gold fish could help. They’d say if pets could talk they’d say too much. Believe it or not people sit and rant to their pets about their day just to get it off their chest and as pets don’t talk no one else will ever have to know. You’ve vented our problems, clearing your mind, never to be spoke of again. Choose pets carefully though, a parrot may repeat it, and we don’t want that.

#6 Write About It

So your mom wont let you get a pet…try writing it down, like a diary. You get it off your chest and later on in life you can look back on it and think about how much you have grown. You never know when it might come in handy though, we have all listened to those heart-breaking love songs, and they’ve all come from experience. Don’t think the world is against you, it’s helping you become a better person, so don’t worry it will get better.

#5 See Your Friends

While you were all loved up you may have neglected your friends, you need them more than ever now so time to build the bridges. What you need now is a few girly nights in, films food and laughs is just what the doctor ordered. Spend some time away from the male species, learn to love yourself again and get over him once and for all. Take some time away and get your friends back, they will have missed you and want to help you smile again, so let them.

#4 Do Something New

So you have spent the past how ever many months doing everything with him, that can’t and wont happen anymore. You may have done so much together but now is the time to do something on your own. A brand new exciting activity to take your mind off him. There’s no point doing something you’ve done a million times with him that will be too painful. Find something wacky and fun and take a few friends with you. It’ll cheer you up and take your mind off him.

#3 He’s Moved To The Moon

Obviously he doesn’t live on the moon but pretend he does. The further away he is the easier it will be to get over. So what if you see him, think of it as he’s on vacation from his home planet. Realistically you will have to see him a few times but when you’re alone just think of how much a text saying ‘I miss you’ would take to send to the moon! That will stop you sending all those heartbroken messages. You’re too good to date an alien anyways.

#2 Let Your Hair Down

Don’t sit locked away in your bedroom crying and feeling sorry for yourself when you could be out with your friends having the time of your life! Don’t let him win, you sitting alone will just show to him that you need him and that you can’t function without you. That’s not right… you were perfectly fine before he came alone and you will be again when he’s gone. Go out have fun and enjoy single life and all the free time you have.

#1 Meet Someone New

The past few months have been hard…the majority of girls will agree with you that a break up is the worst but it does get better. While you’ve been crying your eyes out over that guy that didn’t see how lucky I was there was another guy looking at you from a distance wanting to help you and look after you. Find him and be happy again, he will make you feel ten times better than you did before. It will be hard to be in a relationship again but we can’t ignore men forever, they’re not all bad.